Wednesday, November 21, 2007

My Daughter My Choice

Some of you may know what has been going on, on a particular site in US to anyone that has par taken in that forum and revolting comments about Lilly shame and you. You obviously have no heart and I hope that you never have to experience the pain my family has, and more so I would feel so sorry for your child having a mother that is not proud of him/her and want to share them with the world. If you have a problem with photos of my daughter don’t look at them I never asked you to and do not visit me bog and try and leave nasty comments either. If I saw your children I may think are ugly but would running around posting nasty things about them NO!!!!

To those of you who support my decision to scrap my children thankyou very much, my photos are all I have left Lilly and I treasure them very much!! The reason I post my LO's of Lilly is because I am proud she is my daughter and if I can help just one mother through her pain and grieving that is all that matters to me. It can be so hard when you scrap their photos and I know before I started scrapping I searched for ideas on how to honour her memory.

I will add that you have not upset me writing such nasty things, but only made me angry and more determined to scrap photos of my Beautiful girl and share them with the world. She is MY DAUGHTER and I will post her photo wherever I want to.

19 comments:

Angela said...

Bring em on Kim!!
You have every right to be proud of your beautiful Lilly. Just as you are of Charlize.

I don't know what site you are talking about or the comments you have received but pfft to them. They can bugger off!!!

Anonymous said...

Here here Kimmy!

Fuck those nasty bitches. You are strong chook, far stronger than all of them :)

I cannot believe how cruel some people can be, thank god we don't live over there LOL

Anonymous said...

Hi there Kim I saw your pages and thought they were beautiful. I was alerted to the site as my friend Suz also had some nasty comments said about her. All I can say is be strong these people are nothing but scum.

Cindy

Anonymous said...

Hi there Kim I often come and look at your blog and thought the Lo's of your daughter were beautiful. I was alerted about this blog by a friend of mine Suz she was also bagged on this blog. These people are nothing but scum.

Cindy

Sarah said...

You have every right to feel proud of Lilly, and shame on those stupid people for any negative comments they have.

I don't know which site you're referring to, nor had I heard of the problem until I visited EB today.

I have nothing but memories of my miscarried angel, I know that doesn't compare in any way to your loss, but still, I would give anything to have had one cuddle and I would cherish any photos for the rest of my life.

~Col~ said...

I can't believe there are people out there so insensitive and cruel. They obviously have no conscience, no heart and nothing better to do with their time.

I love seeing your LO's of your beautiful little girl Kim! Please never stop sharing them with us!

jodyg said...

Oh no Kim.

That is just awful. I agree with Rach, they are just nasty bitches.

I was just thinking to myself the other day after you posted your latest beautiful LO's of precious little Lilly that you and all the other angel mums are so generous of spirit to share such beautiful, special, heartbreaking memories with everyone.

Big hugs Kim and keep those beautiful LO's coming.

Back to New Blinds said...

You layouts are beautiful as is your little girl. Be proud to show them,

Are these women mothers (Very nasty)?

You are doing a wonderful wonderful job scrapping your very precoius memories.

Regards Pamela Godfrey

Anonymous said...

Hi Kim

I came across your site via EB where I was HORRIFIED to find out that nasty comments have been made. I wanted to see the LO's for myself and they were breathtaking and beautiful.
It's obvious how much you and your family love your daughter.

Stuff the idiots! Keep on making gorgeous memories!

Anonymous said...

Hi Kim, So sorry that you have been the target of these mean cold hearted excuses for human beings.I have lost two of my babies and sadly have no pictures, no memories, only in my heart.Lilly is a beautiful baby and deserves to be remembered and shared.Your layouts are beautiful and you can feel the love and emotion in them.I grieve for you and your family and I thank you for sharing your beautiful angel with us all.

Anonymous said...

Hi Kim,
I just wanted to let you know that your daughter is beautiful.
I cant imagine how much those rotten people have hurt you.
I know what it is like to lose a daughter, and yes, I have scrapped my 'angel' and posted in a gallery.
I wont ever be ashamed of my beautiful girl, and neither should you be.
Keep up the lovely work!

*Kymmymoo* said...

Hi Kim,
I just wanted to comment on your blog to say "Thank you" for sharing memories of your precious and beautiful Angel Lilly with us.
I was so glad to read that you have not let what's been happening upset you.
Love from one mother to another, Kym

memememememe said...

(((((Kim)))))

You keep on scrapping whatever you want however you want. Their your layouts. Do with them whatever you wish.

All the best,

Vicki

Anonymous said...

Hi there Kim,
I think that you are the bravest woman in the world, The Lo are stunning and your baby is divine, thank you so much for sharing this with us. AS for those women who posted those comments on THAT site.. They will get their's.. there is no need for the heartless things that were said, but good for you by not letting them get to you ! you keep scrapping Lilly and don't let anyone stop you !

Louise

Anonymous said...

Your layouts are beautiful. Every day I wish I had more photos of Robbie than the ones the hospital took for me. I wish I had a photo to capture what I see when I close my eyes. One thing that helped me was buying an album and paper to make a book for Robbie. I haven't done it yet, but seeing your layout gives me strength. I have often wondered if other people are moved to scrap their angels. Now I know. Thank you for sharing.

Sharryn Thomson said...

Hi Kim,
I know of the site you are talking about but never read the comments and don't particularly want to.
I just want to say how amazing I think you are scrapping these gorgeous photos of your precious little angel and sharing them with us.
I wouldn't take any notice of the nasty bitches myself, especially those that post anon.
You go girl...scrap what you want, when you want...but promsie to post it here so we can admire it. :)
Cheers
Sharryn :)

deirdre said...

Good on you Kim! I saw the page and immediately thought it was a beautiful tribute to a gorgeous little baby.
All I can say is those jealous women made those comments because they aren't strong enough to scrap something so "real life". So good on you, and I personally would love to see more :)
Deexx

amanda said...

you go girl. I love seeing Lilly and your LOs are just beautiful.

I am so proud of how strong you are through all this.

We will show them ;-)

Sharon said...

Oh Kim that is horrible. I understand totally about being angry and more determined. "ditto" to what has already been said!!!!